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As the years go by, technologies innovate more and more, knowledge evolves, and people also change, traditions and cultures change. More and more men and women decide to graduate, have a good job, have a car and home, and then start thinking about getting married and getting married.
Personal and financial progress is wonderful, but we must not forget that family is part of our progress, and family is not only the father and the mother, you can build your own family and this is fundamental for your growth as an individual and professional.
Do not you see advantages in getting married young? In this article, I will address three advantages that no other experience can provide you.
1. Achievements together
For many couples, the reason for postponing marriage is that they have not yet achieved some things, they have as their priority material goods. It is as if “having” is more important than “being.” No, my dear ones, I am not saying that you should marry “one hand in front and the other hand behind,” but the experience of conquering all these things together with your spouse is priceless.
There is no magic formula for knowing the right time to start a married life, but make marriage a priority, do not leave it for later.
And this is an advantage of getting married young, you will share many conquests together! It’s a good thing to get married, having a car, home, good job … but if you do not have that opportunity, know that the experiences of the journey you will take to achieve those goals will be incredibly gratifying. In the future, you will look back and feel grateful to see that all the dedication paid off.
2. Ease of adapting
Marriage requires changes in habits, routines, behavior, requires adaptation. Overnight your life changes, you wake up and there’s someone there by your side, you want to have dinner rice and beans and your spouse does not like beans, so you need a third item on the menu so you can please both tastes.
Adaptation is not easy. You are organized and the spouse is not; you like to watch television before bed, and your spouse likes to read, and at the beginning is not easy. But the younger we are, the more adaptable we are also, the more willing we are to change.
3. Less luggage
The luggage would be everything you’ve ever lived, all the experiences, difficulties, learning, all the people you met and lived, and that also, related. Whether you like it or not, past relationships and experiences instead of adding up sometimes get in the way, do not they? Many frustrations are hard to totally forget, and it may be that when your love fails something, you will remember that in your previous relationship the same thing happened, and that situation will not be comfortable.
The more baggage you have, the more distrust you will have, the more insecurity and fear. By getting married early, you will discover life together, you will fail and mend mistakes together and it will be a great learning for your growth.